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Suicide defies our universal instinct for self-preservation. It cuts through the core of our beliefs, leaving a trail of pain, emotional overflow, broken relationships, and frequently, a long list of unanswered questions.
What makes this book unique is that the author draws on extensive clinical evidence and personal stories of individuals who attempted suicide, families who lost loved ones, authors, and renowned specialists. It offers a powerful insight into the suicidal mind, comfort, and solace to survivors, practical tips on how to help those who are at risk, and valuable guidance to mental health professionals.
Paula Fontenelle was a noted journalist when her father took his own life, and it is from a personal, as well as a professional point of view that she wrote this honest, insightful book. At first, she wanted to understand what had led her father to suicide, but after hearing heart-wrenching testimonials from people touched by self-inflicted death, she embarked on a journey to address the questions that haunt the lives of more than 800,000 people worldwide, every year.
The first edition of this book was a finalist of “Prêmio Jabuti,” the Brazilian national book prize, and has been a leading reference in that country.
Recommended Books
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Reading about other people's experiences can foster a sense of comfort and understanding. It certainly helped me when I was searching for answers about my father's suicide, so I decided to share a list of insightful books that guided me through my personal journey. Some are autobiographical and others have been written by specialists. Nonetheless, they provide crucial information about the subject.
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Memoirs on grief and suicide grief
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Darkness visible: a memoir of madness - William Styron
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Night falls fast: understanding suicide - Kay Redfield Jamison
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An unquiet mind: a memoir of moods and madness - Kay Redfield Jamison
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The noonday demon: an atlas of depression - Andrew Solomon
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No time to say goodbye: Surviving the suicide of a loved one - Carla Fine
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A grief observed - C.S. Lewis
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After Suicide Loss: Coping with Your Grief - Dr. Jack Jordan
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Grief After Suicide: Understanding the Consequences and Caring for the Survivors - Dr. Jack Jordan and John McIntosh
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Grieving a suicide: A loved one's search for comfort, answers, and hope - Albert H. Hsu
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Dying to be free: A healing guide for families after a suicide - Beverly Cobain and Jean Larch
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No one cares about crazy people - Ron Powers
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Notes for the everlost: A field guide to grief - Kate Inglis
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Out came the sun: Overcoming the legacy of mental illness, addiction, and suicide in my family - Mariel Hemmingway and Ben Greenman
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A new mourning: Discovering the gifts in grief - Georgina Eggleston
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A matter of death and life - Irvin Yalom
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It's OK that you're not ok: Meeting grief and loss in a culture that doesn't understand - Megan Devine
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Shattered: From Grief to Joy After My Son's Suicide - Rebecca Tervo
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Grief works: stories of life, death and surviving - Julia Samuel
Understanding Suicide
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Understanding Suicide: Living with Loss, paths to Prevention - Paula Fontenelle
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Why people die by suicide - Thomas Joiner
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The Perversion of Virtue: Understanding Murder-Suicide - Thomas Joiner
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Myths about suicide - Thomas Joiner
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Treating suicidal clients & self-harm behaviors: assessments, worksheets & guides for interventions and long-term care - Meagan Houston
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The suicidal mind - Edwin Shneidman
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Definition of suicide - Edwin Shneidman
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Suicide: a study in sociology - Ëmile Durkheim
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November of the soul: the enigma of Suicide - George Howe Colt
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Why suicide?: questions and answers about suicide, suicide prevention, and coping with the suicide of someone you know - Eric Marcus
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Helping the suicidal person: Tips and Techniques for Professionals - Stacey Freedenthal
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Loving Someone with Suicidal Thoughts: What Family, Friends, and Partners Can Say and Do - Stacey Freedenthal
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Rethinking Suicide: Why Prevention Fails, and How We Can Do Better - Craig J. Bryan
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How Not to Kill Yourself: A Portrait of the Suicidal Mind - Clancy Martin
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The Suicide Club: What to Do When Someone You Love Chooses Death - Alexandra Wyman
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Anxiety: the missing stage of grief - Claire Bidwell Smith
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Option B: facing adversity, building resilience, and finding Joy - Sheryl Sandberg
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What made Maddy run: the secret struggles and tragic death of an all-American teen - Kate Fagan
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What happened to you? Conversations on trauma, resilience, and healing - Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey
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Together: The healing power of human connection in a sometimes lonely world - Vivek H. Murthy, MD.
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Shame No More: A framework for healing through grace - Richard Shaw
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Thriving after trauma: stories of living and healing - Shari Botwin
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Running on empty: Overcome your childhood emotional neglect - Jonice Webb, PhD.